I’d a meal go out with a man I’d exchanged a number of email messages and many a g-chat with. We also Skyped-which I’ll be creating a blog post onâ¦I highly recommend Skype or iChat with a date if your wanting to spend your time doing all of your hair, especially if you’re balancing great deal’s of dates. For reals.
Anyways, all was actually great regarding “No Catfish right here top”. I appeared to be me, he looked like him, we laughed and made the decision we’re able to deal with an authentic go out.
I happened to be timely, he was late (whyyyyyyyyyâ¦stop getting LATE you guys)â¦and he texted me, “merely strolling up!”
It was flowing rain, performed We discuss that? And freezing, at least for Southern Ca criteria. In which he was putting on flip-flops. SHOES. The.Horror.
I dislike to appear extremely judgemental (far too late!) but as on the web daters, actually that everything we carry out? JUDGE! Judge initial e-mail, basic telephone call, the fb judge, searching for what is wrongâ¦instead of what is actually right? Or perhaps is that just meâ¦haha.
Today, I am not gonna overcome all over plant right here. I do believe a man putting on flip flops in the torrential rain is actually ridiculous. I would personally think alike about a girlâ¦but in which We live, flip flops and sandals never ever get put away forever and I understand i have been accounkitchen table poly for a grocery shop run in flip flops during a storm. All of the men Im drawn to are surfers, or outdoorsy and flip-flops and denim jeans are form of their particular uniform. Carry out I wish he’d the presence of mind to put on actual boots? Why yes, yes i actually do. Did he need a pedicure? Certainly, yes the guy did-all that outdoorsy-ness i prefer plenty doesn’t leave your feet looking also sexy, apparently.
But we digress.
We chuckled a whole lot in which he is devastatingly good-looking. He has flawless dining table ways and questioned best concerns. Things appeared to be heading well because as we ate, he questioned if I wished to head to another spot to get some good pumpkin cheesecake. I forgot about his sneakers and quit judgingâ¦and just had a very good time.
Whether or not he could be someone I would like to continue dating has actually but to be determined, however, if things carry on well, maybe we’ll simply have to get him a set of Chuck Taylor’s for Christmas and burn the flip flops. With really love, definitely. And an alibi. ????